Lesbian Visibility Day

Today marks both the end of Lesbian Visibility Week and Lesbian Visibility Day itself! As a lesbian, writing something on this day is really important to me. So, this time last year, I was not out as a lesbian. I've not fully been out for very long now in real life, but it's been a…

An Important Reflection/Notice

I've been recently been doing a lot of reflecting over myself and my blog (with the help of my wonderful partner, supporting me) and the first fact that was glaringly obvious is that I've put a lot of pressure on myself. When that happens, a part of me shuts down which... really has been demonstrated…

Feeling Body Confident in Julie May (GIFTED)

I was recently gifted some lovely products and have been using these now for about a month. They've honestly both made me feel like an absolute queen when it comes to caring for myself, my body, and my skin. As you may know body image is a huge issue for me, and I preach body…

A little life update!

Life is a fast mover, and there's always something new around the corner, whether we expect it or not. Sometimes, it's overwhelming; sometimes, it's exciting; sometimes, it's both. My life has come with a mix of all three, in recent times especially, and those are things I wanted to share with you. PersonalThe first thing…

Little Things I Love About Myself

I don't exactly have the best perception of my self image, nor do I like how I look on a daily basis, but I'm trying my damn best to overcome it. The body positivity movement has helped me a lot, and is something that - though I always follow - I dip in and out…

Things I’m looking forward to

I have a lot of exciting things ahead of me, and I wanted to share them in this post! I remember doing one of these years ago and it was lovely and super fun, so why not bring it back? Let's get hyped. August There's only a few days left of August, but I still…

July’s bujo story.

In my recent post Things I’d Like To Achieve This August, I cited that I'd like to improve on my bujo by sticking to a set of goals which I've created for this project. These goals mostly centre around aesthetics, and though my bujo has been a work in progress over the course of a…

Pride(s) 2019

Last year, I went to Pride for the first time. Unfortunately, my first event was Pride In London, which I have since denounced as a result of the TERF infiltration in 2018. Another reason it's been avoided by me is the lack of accessibility partnered with busy crowds (making access harder, but also inducing anxiety).…

Non-Binary Pride

Today is International Non-Binary People's Day, and we want to be heard. I'm sitting here writing this with my pronouns tattooed on my head in make-up. I have no intricate skills and am generally a messy human being, so it's not completely perfect, but it's the statement that matters; maybe they'll respect my pronouns then.…

The Medical Mandate

I want to post this not as a justification, but as a note to those in the same boat as me that you're not alone and we should be proud of all we've been done and are doing into the future. This morning, I recieved a fair few amount of messages questioning me on something…